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Why Fighting is Normal in a Relationship

     Relationships are never easy.  Yes, there are many pros to relationships; love, laughs, fun times, etc.  There are also cons, such as fighting, disagreements, and stress.  Some people, especially younger men and women, who get into relationships think they are going to be all sunshine and rainbows.  When things do not end up going the way they anticipated, the relationship often ends.  They believe that just because fighting broke out and that they fight a lot, or so it seems, that the relationship was never meant to be.  Yes, there can be instances where two people should not be in a relationship because they fight too much or are not compatible.  However, most of the time people give up on relationships too quickly.  Just because a couple fights from time to time, it does not always mean the relationship is not worth saving.  In fact, it usually means that the relationship is normal.
     If couples did not fight, there would be no compromise, change, or greater understanding of partners.  Couples fight because they are not the same people and have different thoughts, opinions, and personalities.  Yes, a couple usually has a lot in common but it does not mean they will agree on everything.  It is only a matter of time before a couple has a disagreement that leads to an argument.  This can happen rarely or quite often depending on the couple.  Either way, it does not mean the relationship is unhealthy.  When couples disagree and argue, they showing their partners their true selves by being truthful in our words, thoughts, and opinions.  If we keep those emotions inside, the relationship may seem alright on the outside to your significant other, but on the inside, you would be miserable.  Arguing is how we release our emotions and show our partner that the relationship needs to change in some way.  When we do this, we have the opportunity to create compromise so that both parties are happy.
     Never give up on a relationship because of fighting.  Fighting is a sign that the relationship is healthy, happy, and normal.  When we fight, we compromise, and we learn more about ourselves and our significant others.  We can then move on stronger than we were before, keeping this newly acquired information in mind to maintain happiness between both parties.  Without fighting or disagreements, there would be a lot of pent up anger and resentment within, and that could lead to a premature end when there did not need to be.  Remember to always think of the good times and why relationships are always worth the effort in the long run.  Yes, fighting occurs, but the amount of memories you make and the love you share is the reward for the hard work.

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