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Life Advice Blog #3 - Change

     Today we talk about change and the importance of adaptation. People are content within their comfort zone when in reality it should be the opposite.  Naturally, humans should embrace change.  Adaptation was necessary for survival in the early days of humanity.  Nowadays, society is full of luxury, and people can live their lives with very little to worry about.  Because of this, I believe most people now resist change, and there are people who are less likely to adapt to their new reality.  Personally, I am not a huge fan of change, but I understand that it is a continuous part of life.  There are people who dislike change, because they often associate change with the negative connotations of words like “unknown” or “different.”  I am not trying to say you should like change when it is positive and hate it when it is negative.  The point I am trying to make is that change will always occur, and how a person handles this change makes all of the difference.  The best way to handle change, in my opinion, is to embrace it. You do not have to necessarily like change, but embracing it, and learning to adapt to it, will give you a different outlook on life as a whole, and you might learn something in the process.


     One of the reasons why it is important to embrace change is that it challenges you to strategize, to think of new ways to deal with the new reality.  I believe that one reason why people resist change is because it requires work to adapt. Most people think “why can’t I just keep doing what I’m doing rather than deal with these new changes?”  Well, for one, your comfort zone prevents you from growing as a person.  A person needs to be thrown into new experiences in order to fully grow and mature. New experiences require a change in a person’s daily routine.  This can be scary, because it means someone is now having to leave their safety net and learn new things, they must adapt to the changes in their lives.  In order to adapt, the person needs to think, strategize, and plan.  The plan the person devises will be beneficial in successfully adapting to the changes in their lives.  The more a person does this, the easier it is to handle the changes life throws, you grow and mature.  Some changes can be difficult to handle, of course, but it is better to have experience in handling change than having something devastating occur and not be prepared.


     If you are currently going through changes in your life, good or bad, understand that your outlook on life, as well as a positive attitude towards this change, can help dramatically.  Whether it is a new job or a death of a loved one, the same logic applies; embrace the inevitable change, strategize, and plan.  It may not solve every problem, but it will help in adapting to your new reality.  You do not have to agree with the changes, but you have to learn deal with them in order to grow and/or move on.  By doing so, you are more equipped to take on the world, overcome hardships, and achieve the goals you set for yourself.

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